What's just as aggravating to me in those situations is the other guys who are around who don't say anything. "Hey are you harrassing her?" becomes a joke... in whose fucked up universe? And you're totally right. You don't have comebacks ready when you're just out on your porch. Sometimes, though, if you corner him at a later date when the laughter has died down and he figures you've forgotten about it you can really make him feel terrible. And you have prep time.