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[maevele]

 So, I got another defriended notice, again from someone from the drama comm.   So either they had a leaker too and are trimming hard, or they disagree hard with something I said recently but haven't called me on it.   or it's just random, but hey, timing.   I'm just relieved these fuckers don't care enough about me to leak my shit, y'know


This one at least wasn't someone I was close to, I guess, but it still sucks ass that the crap happening in the anon comms is costing me friends. 

I tried to get caught up on all that shit,  but I don't have time for that.  Basically, what I have seen has gone way beyond callouts and into abuse.   
The original discussion had validity, even,  if it was some shit I wasn't going to touch with a ten foot pole, but it's been taken to the type of shit I associate with /b/.

And I'm not going to act superior, I hung out in anon a long while, even posted under my name and went to chat, for a little while so I get the appeal,  and I have spent time in some other harsh parts of the net, but at this point the whole comm is enabling some abusive bullshit, even those not being abusive are encouraging that shit.    I'm not going to be cliched and call it a cesspool that needs deletion, but I will say that those of you still participating need to take a look at what is being accepted as okay behavior.

You've chased good, if flawed people all the way off lj. wtg assholes.

Comments

[bifemmefatale]

Funny, I was *just* saying to someone on Fet that sf_d was like the 4chan of LJ. It is a cesspool. Deletion would just mean that they'd all move somewhere else, but boy do I avoid sf_d and s_f with a 10 ft. pole, let alone anon! Like I said elsewhere, drama comms always eat their own eventually.

[flourish]

+1

This shit has spilled over onto my friends list in so many ways. Just - ugh, whatever. Ironically the only comm remotely like sf_d to NOT eat its own is Fandom Wank...

[rhivolution]

Another +1 here. Wow.