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You know how sometimes people on your friendslist post about stuff going on in their life, and all of a sudden you think "Wait a minute? Since when were they working THERE? Since when were they dating HIM/HER? Since when???" And then you wonder how you could have missed all that seemingly pretty standard information, but somehow you feel too ashamed to ask for clarification because it seems like info you should already know? It happens to all of us sometimes.

Please copy the topics below, erase my answers and put yours in their place, and then post it in your journal! Please elaborate on the questions that would benefit from elaboration. One-Word-Answers seldom help anyone out.

1. first name
Maevele, pronounced any way except rhyming with navel, mostly May-VEL or Muhvel

okay, the legal name is staci, with a fucking I, which does not suit me, now does it

2. age

35. a GROWN UP I guess

3. location

madison wi

4. occupation
stay at home mom, unschooler

5. partner?
married for almost 15 years now

6. kids? 2. Hq is 8, and pobo insomniac is 3

7. brothers/sisters

nope, i use to have a stepsister, but her dad disowned me, so no

8. pets


9. list the 3-5 biggest things going on in your life

Depression and anxiety
not writing or singing

10. parents

My father is dead, my mother lives in town and is also crazy but undiagnosed, we get along okay as long as I am on my meds. she has a gambling problem, but is Better Now

11. who are some of your closest friends?

I am short on really close friends, in the sense of seeing them on any frequent basis, and it feels weird to name drop and try to figure if I am overstepping by calling someone close if really they hate me, etc, so not applicable
maevele: (cabaret)
there was some overlap and such, so i'm combining. my 5's came from oursin, leeoakfire,emzebel, and one from chris462

HA. I used to be an activist.  I find it sweet that 2 people thought of that word for me, considering.   I used to go to marches, and organized the local pagan pride for a few years.  Then I had kids, my activism now takes a more subtle form,  of moving information and trying to get through to individuals and change how they look at things.  So it's online activism, and arguing.  and not enough of it.

I'm lumping these two together even though they are technically separate.  I'm sensitive in the sense that things fucking hurt me.  less so on the meds, but it still happens.   as far as caring, I dont think Im more caring than average,  but yeah, i care about an awful lot of peple and things,

outraged (over injustice);  kinda ties in to the two above, don't it?   I've been outraged so much for so long, it's almost my default. There's just so much outrageous shit, ain't there?

See activist above. Im still pagan sort of, although i am more of an agnostic with pagan trappings now.

I knew I'd get this one.  i can't explain my love for Rent withouth talking about my taste in musicals in general.   I have always loved certain musicals. The dark ones. the socially relevant ones. Cabaret. Hair, RHPS, even. Technically it goes back to the rocky, which i was exposed to the soundtrack to at the ripe old age of 7.  and set the stage (ha) for my love of quirky, rock oriented musicals.   i watched Rent for the first time a little over a year ago, when it was running on hbo, and I fell in love with it.   The awesome of Angel, the sweet, the sad, the music.
So i Itunesed m yself some of the soundtrack, and the kids fell in love with the songs. So I got the videos of the songs on youtube for them, and the loved them so much that we had to buy the dvd. neither of them have seen the whole thing, only the musical numbers, mostly, but at this point I would let them watch the whole thing uncensored, with my only concern being the sadness of the death scene. 
Its actually been a great educational tool o sorts, because it started conversations about homosexuality, trans* ness, and HIV.  Maybe not everyone thinks that is what they should discuss with their 7 yr old, but Im pro-information.

I never wanted to be a parent.  much as i loved children, I liked to spend time with other people's kids, but I knew if I had kids they would eclipse the rest of my life, because I am not someoe who has enough for kids and my own life. But, I fucked up my math, and was not going to have a second abortion.  I was right, having kids consumed most of my life, but it turns out I'm okay with that, and get more satisfaction out of them than I did from the things I no longer have time for.

For all that I keep threatening to divorce the Feminist movement for being focussed on white middle class able cis women, I'm still a goddamn feminist, and I'd like the ones who keep making feminism exclusive to get the fuck out of my movement now, thanks.  But i won't let them drive me to stop calling myself a feminist, because those of us who think it's about all women are the real goddamn feminists, not the assholes.  

I like wiscon better than christmas and my birthday combined.   It's home to me.  I've only been ging for like 6 years.

I AM NOT SHTRLY.  However,  I do think class is a very important axis of oppression that gets overlooked too much.  I am very conscio0us of class shit because i was raised pretty poor, and was eventually bussd to more affluent schools and wound up aware of my class status pretty young, although I didn't have the context and language to process it until recently.   

I've had depression for as long as I can remember.  I was always prone to dark thoughts, morbidity, solitude, and i was a sad kid.  So it was actually hard to diagnose me, because a lot of the questions are based on depression being a change from one's usual state, where for me it was my usual state.  It's fucked me up more than I can talk about, honestly.  Most every decision I made from age 12 to age 20 was driven by the depression, including a lot of self destructive shit. 

Science Fiction

Another thing i have a weird relationship with. I love the skiffy, but most of the 'classics' i have no interest in.  Although I read the whole heinlein adult collection as a teenager, otherwise I haven't read most of the traditional sf canon.  Even within the feminist sf canon, i have skipped a lot of the major names, or only read small bits.  I've always been a big reader, and discovered scifi when i was like 8, with the danny dunn books and the mushroom planet.  at 12, the woman i babysat for lent me one of piers anthony's adept books, pohl's 'coming of the quantum cats' and silverberg's 'world inside' and holy shit,  my life was CHANGED.

even before i blogged, I blogged.  i just did it on usenet, in off topic posts to the tool newsgroup.

and from chris, Challenging
god, i wonder why you think i'm so challenging? I can say that you are not the only one. I've proven many times that I will say things that cross lines with good friends in defense of the truth as i see it. I will, and I do. my rl best friend has used the word challenging, as well as several other interesting words, (adversary, argumentative, archnemesis, ) in attempting to describe my interactions with him. I try to challenge myself even harder than I challenge those I value, and in some case the two interact very heavily. If I am arguing the fuck out of my beliefs with you, and challenging you hard, I'm challenging my beliefs to see if they stand up to yours too. I may in some cases also be challenging our friendship to see if it can stand up that strong. (not you in specific here, chris, but more the aforementioned best friend
i do it less for it's own sake in rl in the decade since i got the internet, which makes it easier to keep my friends.
I'm not as challenging as I'd like to be though.

now i anyone wants 5 from me, just ask
maevele: (Default)
I wanna do the 5 words meme, but I can't figure out who to ask to give me the five.

so i anyne has 5 words i make them think of, I'll take them.

a meme!

Jun. 8th, 2009 12:06 pm
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tooked from dw user=axelrod
The problem with Livejournal and Dreamwidth is that we all think we are so close, but really, we know nothing about each other. Hence, I want you to ask me something you think you should know about me. Something that should be obvious, but you have no idea about. Then post this in your LJ and find out what people don't know about you.

a meme!

Jun. 8th, 2009 12:06 pm
maevele: (Default)
tooked from
The problem with Livejournal and Dreamwidth is that we all think we are so close, but really, we know nothing about each other. Hence, I want you to ask me something you think you should know about me. Something that should be obvious, but you have no idea about. Then post this in your LJ and find out what people don't know about you.


Jan. 30th, 2008 07:22 pm
maevele: (Default)
1. Leave me a casual comment of no particular significance, like a lyric to your current favorite song, your favorite kind of sandwich, or maybe your favorite game. Any remark, meaningless or not.
2. I will respond by asking you five personal questions so I can get to know you better.
3. Update your LJ with the answers to the questions.
4. Include this explanation and offer to ask someone else in your own post.
5. When others respond with a desultory comment, you will ask them five questions.

from [ profile] nmdrkanglmy answers
1. Why is Locutus artsy?
2. How did we end up friended... I don't remember?
3. How do you take your coffee?
4. Favorite food?
5. Uhhh... Why is the sky blue?

1. who now?
2. you said clever shit on S_F, probably. I friend randomly.
3. with that nasty flavored creamer of doom.
4. gyros, today.
5. refraction?
maevele: (Default)
Comment on this post. I will choose seven interests from your profile and you will explain what they mean and why you are interested in them. Post this along with your answers in your own journal so that others can play along, if you like.
[ profile] kittikattie picked these 7 of mine, so here goes.
dexter! Hi there, Michael C Hall being awkward and killing people. yes please.

non traditional parenting, See, I can't say I do attachment parenting, although I have elements of it. I keep studying "parenting methods" to find one that seems like what I do, and I find support for my methods, but only a tiny bit here and there, so I keep studying. Basically, I'm raising the monkeys as though they were almost equals, while teaching them along pretty radical lines.
pants with bunnies a very good friend gave me bunny pj pants while I was insanely pregnant, and I love them. The bunniees are pink. I am the opposite of the type of person who would love bunny pants, but I do and have no shame
sybermoms the net's snarkiest parenting board. also the most judgemental, foul mouthed, gangbangy, and fun.

left wing nonsense When I manage to actually find an opinion in the media that is far left enough that even I think it's far left nonsense, it fills me with glee. Most of what I agree with gets pegged as far left nonsense, so it pleases me greatly to find things further left than I am.
much other music, joan armatrading, damien rice, dar williams, frank zappa, joan baez, nine inch nails, fall out boy. I could go on and on, but do we have all day?

certain comic books I can't just say "comics" because then people think I like all of it. All I really groove on are Strangers, Transmet, Johnny the Homicidal maniac, and my all time fav, Hothead Paisan.


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