care and feeding meme

[maevele]

1. How can I tell if you're angry?

You might not. with people I don't know too well, I will cover anger with a frightening calm.

2. How should I behave around you if you're angry?

by not telling me there is no reason to be angry

3. How do you want me to behave when you are hurting emotionally? How is it best to comfort you?

commiserate or distract. distract is usually good.

4. Are there things we should not discuss?

not that I can think of


5. How should I treat you when you are ill?

soup and vids

6. What makes you happy that's in my power to grant you?


comments. comments comments comments. also vid recs

7. How would you like us to recognise your birthday?

A big karaoke party. or cake


8. Are there any standing categories of presents that would be appropriate or unwelcome?

I'm weird about stuff, in that there aren't categories of things that will always be good or bad gifts for me. Things that make you think of me will make me smile


9. Are there times of the year that are difficult for you? Please explain if you are comfortable.

winter is hard.

10. Are there important anniversaries in your life?

wedding anniversary in january

11. How do I cater for you if you are visiting me?

coffee. vids.


12. If I want to contact you, how should I do it?

through my journal, email or PM. I'm less good with the phone, but like it okay for making plans to do things, not just for shit talking. I'm trying to remember to start my IM client more often, and I am Maevele on whatever service I am using.

Comments

[jesse_the_k]

Comment!

Just because I can :,)

Also, you appear to like vids.

[eriktrips]

If I could think of something to say I would comment. If I could think of a movie I liked I'd recommend it. I like Westerns, though. I bet you don't. They have to show some cognizance of how ridiculous they are though. Like The Good, the Bad and the Ugly: serious shit but not.