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Took back a manipulative cheater because he was homeless. Even though we weren't exclusive, he still managed to find ways to cheat and lie instead of being straight up about it. Even after the takeback, he did it again.
I have given one of my best friends more chances than I can count now. He no longer qualifies as a best friend, barely a friend now, because, fuck, I have to have some standard, and being able to rely on someone in some way is my basic criteria, and all i can rely on him to do now is drink.
I gave another friend a big second chance after her husband went OFF on my kid, for the sake of my friendship with her, but that failed too.
I give lots of chances. I give fewer now, but if I value a person it takes a lot before I will write them off.
Took back a manipulative cheater because he was homeless. Even though we weren't exclusive, he still managed to find ways to cheat and lie instead of being straight up about it. Even after the takeback, he did it again.
I have given one of my best friends more chances than I can count now. He no longer qualifies as a best friend, barely a friend now, because, fuck, I have to have some standard, and being able to rely on someone in some way is my basic criteria, and all i can rely on him to do now is drink.
I gave another friend a big second chance after her husband went OFF on my kid, for the sake of my friendship with her, but that failed too.
I give lots of chances. I give fewer now, but if I value a person it takes a lot before I will write them off.
