From: bifemmefatale pt 1
Apr. 30th, 2010 03:44 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
1. How did you meet Z?
hahahah. this will be long and fucked up. um, i was on acid one halloween, and ran into a friend of mine on state street, and she had her new boyfriend and a friend of his. Her bf was Z. We all hung out all night, crazy friend pretended she was on acid too. Her and Z had some weird fight at like 5 am, involving her standing in front of his car with no pants?
Then a few months later me and my bff were hanging out at crazy friend's house over winter break, and her ex, Z was hanging out too. So I started thinking he was cute, and so did bff, and we played poker, and I let her flirt with him. When we ran into him next, with a couple friends, they gave us a ride home, we stopped to get high, both me and bff were mildly interested, but my seduction technique was more subtle than hers, and once she started to flirt with him, I stepped off. They wound up serious as a heart attack for like a year and a half, living together, had serious drama that is not mine to share, and then became dysfunctional as fuck. I became pretty good friends with him over those couple years. I got to witness their ugly break up, the ugly trying to stay together, the ugly time in the woods when he brought her shit cross country and then was stuck in a cabin in the woods with us and her dad and they fell the fuck apart hard, I saw him at his worst, and saw my bff at her throwing punches worst.
He came back from out west, a couple weeks later i did too, and he was going out with another person I knew, who I had had a years long codependant dysfunctional friendship with. I was still seeing him as the bad guy in his and bff's break up so was outraged that codep friend was hooking up with him. I started forgiving him for the shit with bff, codep friend became convinced I was fucking him once we were friends again. Then follows the whole thing with the getting married to piss off codep friend.
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hahahah. this will be long and fucked up. um, i was on acid one halloween, and ran into a friend of mine on state street, and she had her new boyfriend and a friend of his. Her bf was Z. We all hung out all night, crazy friend pretended she was on acid too. Her and Z had some weird fight at like 5 am, involving her standing in front of his car with no pants?
Then a few months later me and my bff were hanging out at crazy friend's house over winter break, and her ex, Z was hanging out too. So I started thinking he was cute, and so did bff, and we played poker, and I let her flirt with him. When we ran into him next, with a couple friends, they gave us a ride home, we stopped to get high, both me and bff were mildly interested, but my seduction technique was more subtle than hers, and once she started to flirt with him, I stepped off. They wound up serious as a heart attack for like a year and a half, living together, had serious drama that is not mine to share, and then became dysfunctional as fuck. I became pretty good friends with him over those couple years. I got to witness their ugly break up, the ugly trying to stay together, the ugly time in the woods when he brought her shit cross country and then was stuck in a cabin in the woods with us and her dad and they fell the fuck apart hard, I saw him at his worst, and saw my bff at her throwing punches worst.
He came back from out west, a couple weeks later i did too, and he was going out with another person I knew, who I had had a years long codependant dysfunctional friendship with. I was still seeing him as the bad guy in his and bff's break up so was outraged that codep friend was hooking up with him. I started forgiving him for the shit with bff, codep friend became convinced I was fucking him once we were friends again. Then follows the whole thing with the getting married to piss off codep friend.
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Date: 2010-04-30 10:54 pm (UTC)Sounds like you had ample opportunity to see Z in crisis before you got together. V useful!
Also, gotta resonate with a story that starts out i was on acid one halloween
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Date: 2010-05-01 05:47 pm (UTC)